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War log 17: The king is potty training himself!

The king is potty training himself!

After a 2 year incursion on my isle the king has decided he will not wear loin cloths but that he will pee up right like the men of my country.

We did not shame, cajol, or manipulate him.

Rather the king made his choice, securing his place in history.

How much would you risk for your boy?

pexels-photo-691047.jpegHow much would you risk for your boy?

As a father for a little less than 2 years there is one thing I can tell you with certainty: There is NOTHING I wouldn’t do for my boy.ย  I love this kid with a love so strong I don’t think we know until we bring a child into this world.

Indeed the blessing is so great it enabled me to make major life changes and grow as a human being. And with that in mind I propose this: Every sacrifice you make for your child/children is actually a gain.

I left just about everything I know behind and moved to a new state.
Quit my career,
left friends and family,
lost income and retirement funding, and the list goes on.

However, in that loss I gained not only a beautiful boy, but freed my wife from working, granting a wish she always had to be an at home mom, and I gained a larger domicile, a better quality of life, peace of mind, and a pool to boot!

Blessing are everywhere, never forget that.

Now stop reading my blog and go hug your kid(s)!!!

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Children are NOT Tax Credits

Children are blessings- the tax credit is like coffee after the icing on the cake. 

However, instead of looking for a once a year tax return look for sustainable, passive, residual income AKA generational wealth

Or be working class poor and teach your kids to be the same.

Why I blog… For my son… No it’s for me

So I started this blog with a thought.

That dad’s are at war to feed and learn their sons. Period.

Then I thought of the movie Troy.

And I realized my life was under seige, not by my son but by my choices.

And this isn’t a soapbox I’m preaching from or a tale of woe. I’m happy as hell

It was amusing to me that these ideas came together one after the other in 3 minutes.

Literally.

Dad’s of  War came to fruition a few days later.

Lastly, I encourage all Fathers to be DADS.

There is a big difference and your son will dig it and so will you.